There's this illusion that homosexuals have sex and heterosexuals fall in love. That's completely untrue. Everybody wants to be loved. -Boy George

Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands. - Earnest Gaines

Straight Americans need... an education of the heart and soul. They must understand to begin with - how it can feel to spend years denying your own deepest truths, to sit silently through classes, meals, and church services while people you love toss off remarks that brutalize your soul. -Bruce Bawer, The Advocate April 28, 1998